Sunday, January 19, 2014

One Little Word: 2014



One Little Word (TM) is a tradition of choosing one word that you focus on, meditate on, embrace and welcome into your life during the year. The concept, created by Ali Edwards, allows you to reflect on your chosen word throughout the year and let it help you remain true to what you want to accomplish or change. In the past, I have chosen the word "bicycle", "best"; "refine", and "GTD -Getting Things Done". Each year, having a word that is held close to mind and heart has helped me reach some goals that I may not have otherwise attained. This year, I'm taking it to a new level! I've signed up for Ali's workshop, in which she helps guide the students through the process of keeping our words front and center in our lives. So far, it's been a great class, and I've enjoyed reading how others are choosing and using their words. This blog post encompasses some, not all, of the first assignment. It's long enough as it is. Really.

For 2014, I wanted a word that could be applied to many aspects of living. So the word I have chosen is "FITNESS". I am looking at the broad definition of this word as it applies to overall health - not just physical health, but mental, emotional, social, spiritual and financial fitness. I believe it's through a balance of these that we can strive for optimal health. I thought about choosing the word "balance", but I like the empowering feeling and strong imagery I get with the word "fitness".


Some thoughts on fitness:

Fitness defined:
The general condition of the body or mind with reference to soundness and vigor; good health; soundness of body or mind; freedom from disease or ailment.


Synonyms: vigor, vitality, strength, health, fettle, kilter, repair, robustness, shape, trim, condition, order, bounce, bang, endurance, agility, capability, drive, dash, liveliness, zip, zing, muscle, motion, vim, competence, consistency, steadiness.

A Quote on Fitness:

“To be fit, truly fit, you must strive for balance within these [mental, spiritual, emotional, social, financial, physical fitness]. Too much, or too little of any one, or of several combinations of these aspects will leave you miserable and wanting. In other words, chasing perfection in physical fitness (or any of the other aspects of health) generally takes from other aspects. This leaves you unhealthy over-all.  Some of the least healthy people we know have perfect six-packs and incredible work capacity. Yet, their work lives, home lives, and spiritual lives suffer greatly. By the same regard, one who does not have adequate physical fitness cannot be truly fit either.”  - GPP Fitness

I Chose This Word Because…

               I find that I have settled into a routine that in some respects is not very satisfying or rewarding overall. Many things are solid…my relationship with my husband, my financial health, many aspects of my job, my home is comfortable and inviting, my friends are rock stars. But there are things that need more attention. Like my creative outlets, my continuing education for my work, my physical fitness and diet. Not one specific thing is totally in the toilet. I read an occasional journal article; I can run 6 miles. But I think I can do better. I know I can. I wanted a word that would apply to all aspects of health. And I found it! Fitness. Soundness of body and mind. Optimal health. I love it! It’s almost as if this word is giving me permission to take care of myself. I can give myself permission to spend time creating. It’s okay to take time to get outside and play. It's also okay to study or read a journal on a weekend or when I'm "supposed" to be relaxing. And exercising and eating well are clearly the right thing to do.

What Does Fitness Look Like?
  • Mental: Being sharp, focused, self-confident and affirming
  • Emotional: Being patient, appreciative, caring, trusting; sharing
  • Social: Listening, communicating, accepting, being trustworthy, involved; having a comfortable home that is welcoming and inviting; building solid friendships and family relationships; being involved in organizations (charities, etc).
  • Spiritual: Embracing what I find meaningful and inspiring, and things that bring me peace and joy - nature, music, creativity.
  • Financial: Maintaining long-term savings plans, paying off the mortgage, enjoying the occasional splurge. 
  • Physical: Gaining confidence; enjoying restful sleep; having knockout nourishment, endurance, flexibility, muscle, and energy.


My next post will address other aspects of fitness, such as what it feels like to be fit, what I want less or more of in 2014, and what my intentions are. 

Here's to working toward optimal fitness!

Cheers!





Friday, January 17, 2014

2013 Events

2013 had it's share of ups and downs. Most years do, right? I thought I'd do a year in review, good and bad. In chronological order...

We started the year living at my parent's house while our condo was remodeled. We enjoyed many nights of Train! Thanks, Mom & Dad!




The snow was excellent this year, and we took advantage! Mark and I had many chances to get out and skate-ski.




Mountain Dell



My niece, Emma, officially became a teenager (she's been acting like one for years!). She's pretty much awesome.



Feared for my life a couple of times traveling to Park City in this...It was actually pretty sweet!





Learned how to play, and now fully embrace, the game of backgammon:



Finished up the remodel and got to move back home (will do a 'before and after' post sometime):



Worked a lot:





Started a cross stitch project (hoping to complete by Christmas 2014):



Celebrated Elliott's 8th!



Watched Orb win the Kentucky Derby while savoring "Kentucky Hot Browns" and mint-julep cupcakes:






In conjunction with Shawn and Larissa, we "won" the Wheelbarrow of Fun at the Boys and Girls Club Gala. It was full of alcohol, aka "fun"!





The Fab Four rode in the Little Red Riding Hood Bike ride:



Celebrated my birthday with sushi and sparkling sake!




The Skeleton Crew rode the Tour de Cure...



Went boating...

and to Bees games...

Made jam...

Hiked...


Won a Wagon of Fun...like the Wheelbarrow of Fun, just a bit smaller...


Welcomed a new nephew...




Ethan turned twelve...seriously?



Celebrated our 10th anniversary with a Mediterranean cruise...






Ran the Zombie 5K...




Made progress on the cross-stitch...


Saw a really cute (and sleepy) dragon...




Said goodbye to Mark's mom, Lila...




and my Aunt Rosemary...

2007

Saw the incredibly talented Michael Bublé...



Celebrated the holidays...



And got to ski some more!



Whew! I wonder what 2014 has in store for us?

Cheers!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Hello 2014!





May your 2014 be filled with happiness, joy and at least a few achievable resolutions!

Cheers!

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Summertime Bucket List

Summer always goes by so quickly. One minute it's 100 degrees, the next it seems like we're back in the middle of winter. I want to make sure that Mark and I get to do the fun things we love this summer, so we made a summertime bucket list. Short, sweet, and do-able:

1. Go camping - up in the Unitas, even for just one night. Campfire cooking and s'mores...need I say more?

2. Go hiking. We love the Salt Lake Overlook, Dog Lake, White Fir Pass and Park City Overview trails in Millcreek Canyon. We also like the Red Pine Lake and White Pine Lake trails in Little Cottonwood Canyon.
Park City Overview

Red Pine Lake
3. Go cycling. We've done a few rides already, but we just want to get out on the bike some more. City Creek Canyon and Legacy Parkway are great, traffic-free rides.

4. Make raspberry jam.

5. Dinner at Caffe Molise on a Friday night. Sit outside on the patio and enjoy some live jazz music.



6. An outdoor concert at Deer Valley

7. Brunch at Ruth's Diner. Love sitting on that patio in the summer!


So what's on your summer bucket list?

Cheers!

Monday, January 28, 2013

2013 Goals

I love setting goals. And I make a lot of them. I make one for each month, a few for the entire year, and recently have started making goals that span the year starting on my birthday. It seem like a lot of goals, and I don't usually complete all of them. But that's not the point. The point is this:



It's good for me to have goals. They give me something to work on mentally, spiritually or physically. They help me re-examine how I spend my time. And not all of them are serious and mature. Some are fun and frivolous.

At the moment I have several "in progress" goals. January's goal is to spend a few minutes each week in planning. I'm a big fan of David Allen's Getting Things Done principles, and one component of the system is a weekly planning session. I have been doing this for many years, but was only planning certain things, like menus, so I wanted to be more focused on reviewing all of my projects and scheduling time to focus on the steps needed to complete them. So this month, I have taken a few minutes each week, reviewing my goals, projects and tasks, and fitting these things into my week. I have already seen a boost in my productivity. Simply reviewing my goals weekly helps me focus on those things that matter most to me.





For example, one of my yearly goals for 2013 is to exercise for 3 hours each week. Which is 180 minutes per week. As in 9,360 minutes in one year. So, I set up a spread sheet to track this - I enter the date, the exercise and the minutes, and the Excel spread sheet keeps my running total (pun intended) and shows me how many minutes left to reach my goal. By reviewing all my weekly obligations, I know exactly which days I will be able to spend some time exercising, then can plan accordingly (take my gym bag to work, etc.). So far this month, I'm a bit below what I need to average each week, but I'm making progress. And that's the object of goals - to work toward something, not necessarily achieve perfection.

February is right around the corner. I think I'll keep the weekly planning sessions. My goal for February is to spend 10 minutes, 3 times per week, stretching. I mean, I can hardly touch my toes. I'll keep you posted on my progress.

What goals are you working on this month/year?

Cheers!




Tuesday, January 1, 2013

2012 Wrap Up


Happy New Year! Before moving on to 2013, let's see how 2012 finished  up:

Mark's birthday was awesome. He received many letters from his family and friends wishing him a happy birthday and sharing some sweet memories.



For my goal of doing "something epic" for Mark's 60th birthday, I surprised him with a Caribbean cruise over the Christmas holiday. I disguised the gift as packing in a box with a gift certificate. It took him a minute to figure out what the surprise was, but once he did, he was thrilled! He has always wanted to take a trip for Christmas and I was so happy all the planning and arranging worked out!


We started remodeling our condo in early December. To make the process more tolerable, we moved out of the condo and into my parent's house (thanks, Mom and Dad!). It's been fun being back "home" for the holidays. The remodel is going well, and hopefully will be done in the next three weeks or so. 







And finally, our cruise! We sailed from Miami to San Juan, Puerto Rico, to St. Maarten/St. Martin and to St. Kitts. It was beautiful, relaxing, and I highly recommend it!




I hope your 2012 was awesome. Here's to a wonderful 2013!

Cheers!